Try This! The Sexiest Arch

We all know about the power of the arch. If you go around the world, apparently, and ask for those golden arches, there's a myth everyone knows about them. OK, we're not talking about those arches. We're talking about sex--thank goodness.

How to get into it

This position is a favorite because it makes your partner work for it. All while being very hot. Especially for you!

Benefits for the giver

• Have you been sitting in your office chair all day thinking, "Damn, when am I going to exercise?" Yes. Now is the time. 
• When was the last time you got into this arched position? Yes, those are your abs. Use them to please your partner and pleasure will ensue. 
• While you're thinking about pleasing your mate, how about asking what else would result in pleasure. Fringe benefit: giving more pleasure!
• Can you do this one with one arm? That will earn extra brownie & hotness points. But do watch out and stretch after. 

Benefits for the receiver

• Check out your partner's body one more time. Yes, this position is pretty hot.
• Have you told your mate lately how attracted you are? Flattery will get the garbage taken out -- one of the hottest things in my book.
• Grab your mate's neck or shoulders and ride cowgirl, yee haw!
• Are you sitting up straight? Rub your clit as fast or slow as you'd like. Make sure to wet your finger with lube or spit before rubbing, though. You can't have too much lube!

We have a whole range of positions! Check out our full catalog of sex positions.

Our other sex position favs:

• Erotic T
• The Wheelbarrow
• Reverse Cowgirl

Comments? Questions? Do tell below! We finally can have comments below, so start using them, lovely readers!

Try This! Pussy Buffet

Whether you choose to anilingus or cunnilingus for this position, it's a buffet that won't stuff you.

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Benefits for the giver

• Enjoy your partner's juices and scent all over your face
• Be an entertainer and enjoy the moment
• Your lover (like me) may not be able to orgasm in this position. Agree to having fun with it before you try it. 
• You get to lay down for this one -- score!

Benefits for the receiver 

• Do you love receiving cunnilingus? Take this opportunity to get it 
• Near a wall? Use it for leverage, and swivel your hips around your lover's face to alter the movements (and show how you like it)
• Can't cum while you're standing up? Not to worry, you can alter between getting eaten out while standing and laying down (it's all for variation)
• Speaking of variations, you can bend over (touching your toes if you're flexible) to try another lusty variation & up the fun level

We have a whole range of positions! Check out our full catalog of sex positions.

Our other sex position favs:

• Erotic T
• The Wheelbarrow
• Reverse Cowgirl

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Morning Sex: Magical Chairs

We're all about creatively using your furniture to enhance your pleasure.

We recommend using a towel for fabrics that stain easily (like white or khaki colored).

Now, why try this one?

Benefits for the giver

• Next time you invite your granny (parents, friends or otherwise) over for tea, go ahead--giggle a little
• What else are you going to do with that Ottoman? Put your feet on it?! Come on!
• Tone those abs

Benefits for the receiver

• Go as hard or slow as you like
• Voice what you like when making love
• Free hands? Use them to play a little grab ass, bringing it closer to you to further show what you like.
• Don't feel like grabbing? Gently lick your fingers and rub your nipples. 
• Don't feel like rubbing your nipples? How about rubbing your clit?  

We also recommend the other positions below, as well. We have a whole collection of positions! Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Naughty Tango
• Pussy Buffet
• Hidden Dragon

Comments? Questions? Please tell us below!

9 Stimulating Doggie Style Variations

I definitely have a positive bias for doggie style. It's one of my favorites.

We've been recommending quite a few toughies, so this one is going to be a breeze. It's super simple, and can be tons of fun. Feel free to include your own variations, included below.

Variations

For him

• Depending how tall she is, you may want to stand on the balls of your feet. Otherwise, feel free to keep your feet flat.
• Want more power? Stand next to a wall to get even deeper, harder thrusting power
• Yogic? Try it with one leg in the air, why not?
• Slap her ass gently. At this point, if you haven't slapped her ass much, do ask--even playfully, "Did you like that? Want me to slap your ass harder". Just make sure she enjoys that and doesn't just, well, play along. 
• Bend over and gently caress her breasts

For her

• Spread your legs for more support (and for more thrusting power)
• Place yourself next to a doorway for, again, better thrusting support
• Rub your clit for added stimulation
• Grab his ass to show him what you like best (harder, slower, faster?)

Comments? Questions? Comment below!

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10 Basic Steps to Awesome Pegging

It's Anal August. You may or may not have tried it. What better time than now?

Of course you all need to chat first, obviously! Does he want anal love? The answer? Pegging.

Usually we do the position of the day. However, at GetLusty we've been thinking about anal a lot (it's anal August).

We remember when we were confused about pegging and wanted to share the love metaphorically!

So here is a newbie tutorial to pegging based on our own trial & error.

Prepare

#1 Prepare yourself. Have your strap on bought and in place. Have a water-based lube handy. Make sure it's not too tight or loose.

Assume the position

#2 Have him get on all fours. It's the easiest way to start the process. Though after you might want to change your positions up for stimulation, pressure or otherwise.

#3 Get on your knees behind him.

#4 Lube! Make sure to apply plenty of water-based or other kinds of lube to your dildo and the outside of the anus (asshole).

Insert 

#5 Insert the strap on into his anus. Just the tip. As noted by Early to Bed in their Twitter comment, you can also slide in a finger (it's always helpful to get him to help you at this point [don't do it too quickly]).

#6 Once the tip of your strap on is inside, ask your man, "Are you feeling pain or pleasure?"

#7 If he's doing alright (not too in pain) continue in very slowly (like a snail's pace). If he's in pain, slowly remove the strap on and re-lubricate. Try again.

#8 Now, reverse the motion of the strap on (start to take it out of his anus).

In & out

#9 Then, move it back in and continue to wiggle the strap on in and out. Not feeling very natural? Don't worry, just try to create an 8 or O shape with your hips.

#10 In this position, don't worry about massaging his prostate. During this time, feel free to mention that he can also jerk himself off for extra pleasure. Continue until he's thoroughly enjoyed himself.

Do you have variations to this position? We want to hear them! Comment below!

Olympic-Inspired Position: Erotic T

The Olympics are over. Can you believe it? You might be feeling extra sporty lately, or have a need to be at a 90 degree angle. Whatever the reason is, we say explore that feeling. Today's position is the "Erotic T"!

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How to get into it

This is a position that requires some level of athleticism. It would be pretty easy to transition from the Ascent to Desire to this. Just lean backward. Make sure you've communicated with your partner, so you have a 'safety net'.

Givers, bending at knees will give you more support.

Benefits for the giver

• Show off how strong you are
• Enjoy the summer-time sweat
• Enjoy the view!

Benefits for the receiver

• Work those abs!
• Want some extra support? We understand, use your arms either against the wall or a counter top.
• You can also put a table under your upper back if you're having trouble. 

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Lustful Missionary
• Erotic V
• Lusty Z

We want to hear your comments! Include them below!

Sexercise Fav: The Wheelbarrow

Don't get bored with your partner! GetLusty for Couples is dedicated to finding every new, fun, and crazy sex position out there to enhance your lusty relationships. Today, we bring you The Wheelbarrow.

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Today's position is a doozy. It's a favorite among the gymnast community at the Olympics, I'm sure. However, you don't have to score the gold to, you know, score.

How to get into it

Bend over in front of your partner. Place your hands on the ground for stability. Have your partner hold your legs and pull them up. Doing this against a wall may make it easier. Or in front of a bed.

Benefits for the giver

• Let your lover showcase some strength

• Get a lovely view of yourself sliding inside and out

• See, touch, and feel the curves of your partner's body

• You will get a great upper body workout

Benefits for the receiver

• If your lover's on the larger side, this position will ensure there isn't too much depth

• It's an excellent arm & shoulder workout

• If you're resting on a raised surface like a bed or table, you'll have more leverage to make the strokes harder or deeper

We also recommend the other positions below. We have a whole collection of them! Check out our full catalog of sex positions here. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Get in Deep
• Erotic T
• Edible Yoga

Questions? Comments? Please include them below!

Favorite Sex Position: Get in Deep

It's Friday and that means you're likely thinking about sex even more.

What? You're not thinking about sex? Are you crazy?

At GetLusty, we're here to give you weekend sex ideas. If you're visiting our romantic date idea at Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar, this position is a great way to start a night of sex!

That is, if you've gotten a sitter for the kids. No sitter? Next time, use Sittercity.

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How to get into it

If you are receiving, lie down on your back and raise your knees to your chest. Just place your calves on your lover's shoulders and adjust for comfort.

Benefits for the giver

• Great workout for your glute muscles 

• Look at each other for deeper contact

• Get to play the dominate 

• You get to determine whether you're going quick or slow, so if you're pounding it deep and hard, also try it out slow and deep. When you change up the tempo, it offers a variety of sensations for you both.

Benefits for the receiver

• You're able to stimulate your clitoris while he's inside you

• You will be able to receive deeper thrusts from your partner

• You get to play the submissive

• Without him on top of you, you're body is more exposed, allowing you to stimulate your other erogenous zones

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Standing Ovation
• Erotic V
• Lusty Leg Lift

Comments? Please post them below! We love to hear from you!

Another Favorite Sex Position: Standing Ovation

Our lusty position of the day is the Standing Ovation. This one requires a bit of lifting, so be cautious. If it's too much to handle, try it against a wall.

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One of the more simple positions that's also very fitness-friendly, we're excited to bring you this gem.

It's especially popular with quickie sex alternatives - elevators, kitchen counters,  laundry machines.

Benefits for the giver

• You'll get to be the strong dominate 
• You get to feel like you're having a quickie (even if it takes hours)
•  There's an erotic intimacy about your partner desperately clutching onto you as she is ravished against a wall

Benefits for the receiver

• Being picked and held by your dominant partner is hot!
• Wrapping your legs around your partner will give you more control
• If you're up against a wall, push back for a little dominance of your own
• Grab your lover's shoulders, make eye contact, and enjoy the moment! 

It might not last long (again--fitness friendly). That doesn't mean you can't have a fabulous time trying!

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Reverse Cowgirl
• Bended Knees
• Busy Cowgirl

Questions, comments or recommendations? Please use the comment feature below!

Position You'll Yee Haw at: Reverse Cowgirl

Today's position of the day is for that cowgirl in all of us (or cowboy)! Yup, it's the "Reverse Cowgirl"!

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How to get into it

While your partner is laying down, mount on top, facing his/her feet. Kneeling or with your knees near your chest and putting some weight on your hands will give you a range of movements.

You can grab onto your partner's feet or ankles for even more support, to go even deeper and harder!

Benefits for the giver

• Ass bounce: it's a beautiful thing
• You get to see those beautiful curves from behind
• With approval, you can finger your partner's asshole to enhance the pleasure.

Benefits for the receiver

• Feel in control in this position; show your strong side.
• It's an awesome exercise for your glute muscles 
• The angle is best for G spot stimulation
• If your partner sits up, you can get a massage
• If you like, have your partner finger your asshole to enhance the pleasure.

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Over the Top
• the Hipster
• Standing Ovation

Comments or questions? Please feel free to include them below!

Position You'll Love: Over the Top

One of our favorites here at GetLusty is what we call, "Over the top". It's simple, easy, and sexy as hell.

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How to get into it

While your partner is sitting down, get on top. It will probably help to squat, mount, and then stretch your legs out. Stretching your legs and placing your feet flat on the ground will give you more leverage for movement.

Benefits for the giver

• You get to relax! Let your partner do the work for a bit.
• You get to be your partner's play thing. Just watch her grind, ride, and pound you.
• Like the Lusty Leg Lift, you're eye to eye with your partner. It can get pretty intense when you see that lust burning in her eyes.

Benefits for the receiver

• You get to define which angles are best for you
• This position offers leverage for ultimate control
• You can look into your partner's eyes
• You can change positions in this pose: instead of leaning onto your hands, lean forward onto your partner

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Blowjob on Fours
• ZigZag
• Incredibly Intertwined

Comments or questions? Please tell us in the comment section below!

Position of the Day: Blowjob on Fours

Ahh, head. It's a beautiful thing. Blowjobs make for great foreplay and can make the difference between good sex and explosive, mind-boggling goodness. Giving head can be sex in and of itself. Alternatively, it can prepare you both for intercourse. The position of the day is "Blowjob on Fours". Pretty straight forward, right?

How to get into it

Just like the name suggests, get on all fours in front of your partner. Want to spice it up? Crawl from a short distance on your hands and knees to your partner.


Benefits for the receiver

• You'll feel like royalty
• The view will be great from up there
• It's a blowjob! Trust us, you'll enjoy yourself

Benefits for the giver

• Being submissive to your partner is sensual and erotic
• If your partner comes before sex, he'll be able to have sex longer later
• You learn more about how to please your lover, which is always lovely
• Fringe benefit: your partner is far more likely to do chores around the house

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Bended Knees
• Pussy Buffet
• Pleasure Treasure

Comment? Please do! Have a position you love or a topic you're itching to see us write up on? Tell us! You can also e-mail us at reply@getlusty.com!

Position of the Day: Bended Knees

Today, we bring you "Bended Knees". It seems to be a favorite among the ladies, straight and gay. Give it a try!

How to get into it

Have your partner take a knee. Mount yourself on top of your partners leg, positioning yourself with one free leg makes for a nice amount of wiggle room. (Pun intended)

Benefits for the giver

• Isn't it always fun to watch your partner ride you?
• Your hands are free to grab or pull hair
• Placing your hands on your partner's hips will give you a bit more control
• You'll be facing each other (ah, the romance!)

Benefits for the receiver

• The angle of penetration is great
• Some clitoral stimulation
• Chance to leverage your body weight to increase the momentum and force of impact (meaning harder & deeper)
• You'll get to gaze into each other's eyes

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Lusty Leg Lift
• Magical Chairs
• Give 'n Take

Would love to see your comments on both 1) is this a position you've enjoyed? and 2) what other positions do you recommend? Would love to feature your idea!

Position of the Day: The Lusty Leg Lift

Today, we'll be asking you to push your flexibility to the limit. Don't worry. Today's position is adjustable if you're not very flexible. The "Lusty Leg Lift" is an intensely intimate position, and we're excited for you Lustys to try it.

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How to get into it

If you're really flexible, then you probably can just stand in front of each other and throw a leg up over your partner's shoulder - easy. But for the rest of us, try easing that leg up.

Giver, take a knee. Raise your partner's leg over your shoulder. While you're down there you better be partaking in some amazing cunninlingus. Now, slowly stand. Ease her leg up along with you.

Receiver, hold onto your partner's arms, shoulders, neck. You don't have to move very much in this position, so just try to stay standing.

Giver, pay attention to your partner. Don't pull a muscle of hers. Just glide in and out of her with ease.

Benefits for the giver

• You'll be able to go deeper with her leg up like that
• You will get to look into each other's eyes -- it's romantic

Benefits for the receiver

• It stretches your gluteal muscles
• It improves balance
• It's intimate and romantic

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Ascent to Desire
• Naughty Tango
• Yogi Ottoman

Thanks to Cosmo for this one!

Do you love or hate this position? Have you tried it and it hasn't worked? Have other position recommendations? Would love to hear from you! Comment below or e-mail me at erica@sexplore.me!

Position of the Day: Ascent to Desire

We wanna make you work hard today! The "Ascent to Desire" is not for everybody, and even if you can make it work, it might not be for very long. If anything, it good for moving from one location to another. Maybe you need to move from the kitchen counter to the bed. Might as well keep the action going while en route.

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How to get into it

If you wanna take it easy on your back, start out with your partner already elevated, on the counter or a high stool.

Receiver, grab onto your partner's shoulders, or wrap your arms around their neck. Next are the legs - lock 'em around your partner's waist or just curl them up a bit.

Givers... Lift! If your upper body strength is lacking a bit, bend at your knees a little and rest your partner on your thighs. Feel for what's comfortable. Either wrap your arms around your partner's waist, or lift him/her by the ass.

If you wanna maintain this position for decent amount of time, press your partner up against a wall.

Benefits for the giver

• It's a great upper body workout
• It's a great way to show your partner your strong, dominant side, especially if push him/her up against a wall.
• After this session, you will both be huffing, puffing, and dripping with sweat.

Benefits for the receiver

• It's an erotic fantasy come true for submissive types
• It works out your arms and legs
• If you're pushed up against a wall, plant yourself to it and push back and return some of that dominance. 

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Erotic V
• Loving Arch
• Lusty Z

Comments? Questions? Concerns? Do comment below!

Another position from sofeminine.co.uk.

Position of the Day: 3 O'clock Appointment

Equality is important in a relationship, so here's a position that represents that necessary balance. We're calling it "The 3 O'clock Appointment". Don't ask why, just go with it! Alright, get into your positions.

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How to get into it

Much like the traditional 69 position, you and your lover must lie on top of one another. The person on top should be more in a kneeling position, while the person on bottom should be curled up.

Benefits for the one on bottom

• It puts this person in a vulnerable and almost submissive position. For straight men this might be new, therefore, exciting.
• By curling your legs back, you are exposing more areas for play, giving more options for your "top". 

Benefits for the top

• There's more intimacy. You are being cradled (hey, maybe we should have called it "The Cradle") and embrace completely by your partner. 
• You have the control here. You can decide how to pleasure your partner while being able to control your partner's ability to pleasure you.

We also recommend the other positions below. Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Follow the Leader
• Sexy Fold
• ZigZag

Comments? Questions? New Positions? Include them below or e-mail us reply@getlusty.com. 

Position of the Day: Rickshaw

Yes, an easy one for the guys! Ladies, you'll be doing most of the work here, but don't feel bad. It really means that you're in charge for this position. You control depth, thrust, and speed. Today, we're bringing you "The Rickshaw".

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How to get into it

Lay your giver down at the edge of the bed, couch, or chair. Givers, bring your knees up toward your chest.

Receivers, get between his legs, facing away, and grab the giver's feet. Now slide him/her into you. Use their legs for stability and something to bounce against. It'll help with keeping a rhythm.

Benefits for the giver

• It's nice to be submissive for once
• You get to lay back and relax

Benefits for the receiver

• It's a great workout for the legs
• You can control the speed and depth 
• You get to dominate your partner

Get creative with your love making!

Thanks to iVillage for this recommendation.

Position of the Day: Ying Yang

Lets see how agile you Lustys are today! For our sex position of the day, we bring you the "Ying Yang". This one might take some practice, so take it slow, and don't hurt yourself.

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How to get into it

It's really hard getting into this position if you try doing it all at once, and then lifting up. So one thing at a time.

Get on your back fella'! Lay both arms, or at least the left, flat on the floor next to you. The right arm may help with balance by holding onto the top person's leg.

Now, as the top person straddles over you, lift your left leg up, allowing her to cradle it with her arm. This is gonna work those muscles for you bottoms. You have been warned. Be careful and see how long you can hold this position.

For the tops

If you're the one riding this difficult position - be nice. Don't put all of your weight on your partner. Put a lot of your weight into your legs - they're your foundation here. Your partner will be counting on your legs for stability and balance.


Don't forget to comment about it below!

Today's position comes to you from iVillage.

Position of the Day: Follow the Leader

In chatting with pro-dommes, this blog is considering the possibilities of the sub-dom relationship. While this dynamic isn't something you should tread lightly on (we'll help with homework), we encourage you to think about it. 
We're going to start off with a position of the day series to help expand that missionary position portfolio.Today, we're offering a position that's more of a fore play experience, but will undoubtedly lead to some other interesting positions. It's "Follow-the-Leader"!

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How to get into it 


Get on your knees. Your partner wants to dominate you. A leash is nice, but not necessary. This is a great position if the roles are switched, if one is usually the giver, act out the role of the receiver.

Benefits for the giver

• Show your partner who's boss!
• Be worshiped! Order you partner to kiss your toes or boots. 
• Make your mate beg! Just get permission before whipping out your riding crop 



Benefits for the receiver

• You can give your partner a chance to be the dominate one. Switch roles!
• Seeing your partner in a position of power may turn you on more than you expect
• Show your partner how appreciative you are. Beg for it.

We also recommend the other positions below, as well. We have a whole collection of positions! Check out our full catalog of sex positions. 

Our other sex position faves:

• Loving Arch
• Lusty Z
• Hidden Pussy

Comments? Questions? New Positions? Include them below or e-mail us reply@getlusty.com.