10 Reasons Your Man Wants Anal

Some ladies out there might think their partners aren't interested. At GetLusty, we're all about asking questions and getting couples to think about sex. We couldn't help but talk more about anal, since Good Vibrations dedicated a whole month to it (Anal August). We think that's an awesome title for this month. So here's a list why you should ask your husband, finance or boyfriend about his thoughts on anal. You might be surprised to hear his reaction. FYI, this comes from our LGBTQ-friendly male writer (who enjoys prostate stimulation).

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#1 Prostate massage, milking and other stimulation improves blood flow. The result? Boyfriends and husbands will be able to get harder and go faster, for longer.

#2 Men have a new way of letting her know you’re in the mood! When they pull out the strap-on and say, “Wanna have some fun and fuck me in the ass?” that definitely shakes things up!

#3 Prostate stimulation may reduce his chance of prostate cancer and other problems. So when you pull out the prostate massager he can now say he's doing his part to fight disease.

#4 You can say that you want to reenact a Roman orgy. Because lets face it ancient Romans had a ton more fun! At the least, re-enact it among yourselves! Grab some grapes and enjoy.

#5 While you're at it, you can try a variety of other role playing. How about fetishes? Talk about those, too! Take this opportunity to talk about what you both enjoy about your sexual experiences!

#6 Nothing brings lovers closer than water-based lube. I call it the allspice of sex. You can use it for everything! and the Spice must flow! (Yes, I did just make a sci-fi movie reference. I’m a geek.)

#7 So he can see why gay men are always so happy.

#8 Anal sex gives a whole new meaning of taking one for the team, and makes football a lot more fun to speculate about. I mean really look at that lineman and the QB. They have to be doing something right. Or is that just me that fantasizes about that.

#9 He wants to ask you to dominate him. Likely, though, he's too embarrassed to ask.

#10 After you get the insertion part done, it can be seriously enjoyable. Men have the chance to have deeper, harder orgasms. What's in it for you ladies? After your hubby came hard, this is an excellent chance to ask him to fulfill that fantasy you've always wanted to do!


Jean-Luc Gothos is our resident pansexual geek. He's founder on Mindchaotica. He is also very active on Twitter, Facebook, G+, and Tumblr. I’m also a writer for Life On The Swingset, Kink~E Magazine, and he also reviews sex toys on EdenFantasys and writes for their sex positive online publication SexIs Social.

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