Camille Crimson's Top 5 Fav Blowjob Tips

At GetLusty, we love sucking dick. With the right direction, we think other ladies will take up this somewhat lost art. You, too, ladies can be a pro at the penis. Read on. This is a guest post by TheArtofBlowjob.com. We're celebrating our first Blowjob 101 class with Sunny Megatron in Chicago, and wanted to talk about blowjobs briefly. What better person to ask advice on this than a blowjob connoisseur?


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Hi there!

I'm Camille Crimson and I spend a good amount of my time thinking of, talking about and giving sensual blowjobs. I have two wonderful sites devoted to the beauty of oral sex. Find them at TheArtofBlowjob.com and  SlowMotionBlowjob.com, a blog with over 800 posts at CamilleCrimson.com and a weekly advice column at Fleshbot.com.

People often asked me what my tips are when it comes to giving a blowjob, so I wanted to share a few of them with you today.

1. Focus on the tip

The cockhead is a really sensitive spot for a lot of guys, so remember that it isn't all about taking his cock as deep as you can and hoping for the best. Spend some time teasing him with your tongue, tracing little circles, kissing it gently, sucking on it lightly, moving your tongue around while it's in your mouth... Just see what works.

2. Frenulum fun

The frenulum is the little area on the underside linking the head and the shaft. For a lot of penises, this is the sweet spot. Have fun kissing, licking, sucking lightly... See what works for him and go with it. It's not for absolutely everyone, but a lot of guys see this as the most sensitive part, so you may get a very nice response!

3. Stroke and suck

Some people think a blowjob has to be purely with the mouth, but most guys need a helping hand. Whether it's because they're used to their own or they like to vary the stimulation, stroking his cock while you suck him enables you to focus on the head or frenulum while giving his shaft some attention as well. Plus, stability!

4. Don't forget the balls 

A blowjob doesn't need to be strictly cock. The balls need some focus as well.

Check in and see whether he likes a little or a lot, then play around with some kisses, long licks along the seam, even taking them gently into your mouth. If you can stroke him while you lavish attention on his balls, so much the better!

5. Extra credit

What else do you have? You have breasts, you have your face, you have your fingertips... A blowjob can go in so many different directions. A little sexy talk, maybe some roleplaying, a few toys, trying to add some other sex act in the mix... So many options! Earn your extra credit by trying something new.

Of course, it's really important to remember that what works for one person might not necessarily work for another. The best thing to do is to try things and be in tune to how they react. Everybody is different. If in doubt, ask. There's nothing quite like having a talk about turn-ons and making each other feel good to encourage you to get creative and experience new levels of pleasure together.