Original Adult Fiction: Office Tango

Erotic stories are pretty hot, don't you think? Yeah, us, too! Do you want to add a little steam to your Tuesday? Our Crimson Love is here to introduce a series of erotic stories with a little introduction to her characters. Here's another original piece of titillating fiction for your reading pleasure.

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The day has dragged on and it’s now 1:30pm. Time for the weekly Thursday meeting. I go to grab my raspberry iced tea and a handful of fruity hard candy because it’s the only thing that will keep me awake and get me through this monotonous bullshit.

Upon entering the boardroom, a deliciously arousing scent wafts in my path. It’s masculine, with woody notes and a hint of musk, a heady and addictive combination that has forced me to find the owner of this scent. I casually walk around the room and pretend to look for a seat all while trying to find the mysterious origin of my new addiction. It isn't long before we must all be seated for the start of the meeting.

After everyone is seated, Mr. Millwall welcomes everyone, and I am on my way to Lala Land thinking about the things I have to do when I get home. I'm going through my mental grocery list when my thoughts are interrupted by an eruption of applause.

At the exact same moment, that oh so intoxicating scent I failed to find the origin of, wafts right past me. I can only see the back of the owner of such deliciousness as he proceeds to the front of the room. Mr. Millwall introduces him as James O'Sullivan, the new head of the advertising department, my department.

He is tall and well dressed. He's in a grey Armani suit, with sandy, blonde, well coiffed hair, a goatee and sky-blue eyes. As he thanks everyone for the warm welcome I notice his voice is deep and smooth, like rich silk. It reverberates in the deepest, darkest spot of my body. He's so confident, witty and charming; commanding the room's attention with such ease. I can’t believe this man is my new boss.

When James has finished his little introductory speech he returns to his seat and that intoxicating scent liquefies my insides into a puddle of lust. As he sits, he catches my eye and flashes me a smile. I feel the heat of a flush creep up my face from my neck. I quickly look away because I fear my body would ignite if I stare any longer. For the rest of the meeting, I steal glances of James in between fantasizing about the wonderfully wicked things we could do together. Would he do that thing I've been dreaming about? Would he tie me up like I've wished?

It is now 3:30 PM and the meeting is over. People hastily leave but I pretend to take notes on the meeting papers to give myself time to steal one last glance at James. When I look up he is gone and I can't help but to note the tiny pang of disappointment in my gut. I quickly gather my things and as I start to walk to exit the boardroom my cell phone vibrates in my pocket. It's a luscious feeling, and I shutter. I grab my phone to see who or what it is and it’s a text from my best friend, Nikkie. As I proceed to exit the room and read my message I am abruptly knocked off balance and everything I was holding spills to the floor. My papers, tea, and my phone, which is now in pieces, are scattered on the floor.

I mumble some obscenity and kneel down on the floor to pick up my scattered items. As I do I hear that familiar deep, silky voice. I look up and it’s James. He kneels down to help me pick up my things while profusely apologizing and introducing himself.

My heart starts to race and I can’t even look him in the eye. He offers his hand for a shake and as our hands touch I feel electricity move through my body like ripping waves and settle itself deep inside of me.

A slow flush creeps up my face once again and I hurry to gather everything including my ego off of the floor. I hear James talking to me but I can’t focus on the words because I am so distracted by his scent and allure. In a daze, I feel myself being interrupted once again and am propelled back to reality. I spring to my feet and quickly thank him for helping me. I turn to walk away but am stopped by the feeling of his hand lightly touching my arm. I turn back and he says “Wait I never got your name”. “My name is Raven Bloom.” He smiles at my brief introduction and I feel my face flush again.

“Raven, it’s a pleasure to meet you. I have heard quite a bit about you and your talents in this department.” He pauses and then says something I didn’t expect.

“Raven, would you like to have lunch with me tomorrow? It’s my treat since I nearly knocked you over. Not to mention, I would love to get a feel for the department and the direction everyone is headed in. Also, I would love to hear about your latest project as the lead creative. I have heard a lot of buzz about it."

I smile at him, muster up my most confident non-chalant, "Yes", and walk away. As I reach my desk, I feel panic wash over me. Shit how am I going to get through this lunch meeting tomorrow? What am I going to wear? Shit! I need to call Nikkie.

To be continued...

This is a guest post by our very own Crimson Love.

Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!

Have story ideas? Get in touch with Crimson Love at amber@getlusty.com.

3 Ways Saying "No" Can Improve Your Love Life

Is it hard for you to say "no" to people around you? Do you feel selfish when you take time for yourself? Do you ever spread yourself too thin by saying "yes" to everything? Saying "no" more in your life is a great tool that we need to cultivate.

Not only does saying "no" improve your confidence and self-love, but also your relationships with those around you. We have already written about how to love yourself more and ways to practice that self-love. But how can we augment our self-love and become more confident? One word: No.

Here are some reasons why saying "no" can ultimately improve your relationship. Our Lora Swarts reports.

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#1 Reduces resentment

When you try and do too much and spread yourself too thin, resentment can build in your relationship.

You may start to feel resentful toward your partner diminishing the quality of your relationship. Instead of spreading yourself too thin with work or acquaintances, make an effort to schedule alone time.

Make yourself a priority and schedule that manicure or massage rather than going out for happy hour drinks. When you make time for yourself rather than trying to make everyone else happy, your confidence will build. Loving yourself results in being able to love someone else that much more.

#2 Eliminates dependency

When you say "yes" all the time and never put your foot down, your partner may begin to depend on you. When you do everything, whether its picking up your guy's dry-cleaning or walking your friend's dog, people will start to depend on you for everything.

Learn to say "no" more to doing things for others so that they don't lean on you for everything. When you filter out what you can and cannot do for others, you bring more balance into your life and start setting boundaries for yourself. Instead of picking up the dry-cleaning, making dinner and walking your neighbor's dog after a long day at work, skip it! Go to that yoga class or head over to that book club meeting! It's time to start prioritizing yourself and setting those boundaries!

#3 Limits stress

Stress is something that no woman wants in her life. Ironically, even seeing the word stresses me out. Stress can bring about wrinkles, anxiety, sleeplessness and depression.

Why put yourself and your loved ones through all of that? By learning when to say "no" you are preventing yourself from stressing out. It also seems that stress follows you home no matter what. So save yourself and your love life by stopping stress in its tracks! Try and resist from doing more than you can handle and welcome more balance in your life.

Remember, saying "no" never hurt anyone's feelings. On the contrary, it can help your relationship grow!


Lora is the GetLusty Editorial Intern and resident health nut.

When she is not writing, you can find her on her yoga mat, spending too much money on soy lattes or hanging out with her wonderful boyfriend in their north side apartment. You can find her on Twitter @honeynutlo or writing over at her personal blog, Honey Nut Lo.

Have any questions about our editorial content? Contact her at Lora@GetLusty.com.

5 Tips for a More Fulfilling Date

We've been talking about dating quite a bit lately. Why? Because at GetLusty, we believe that it's such an important part about your sexual and emotional relationship! When you've been in an long-term relationship for a while, there are many things that you and your lover should consider.

We talked about dating disasters & remedies, as well as 7 date ideas , 3 other date ideas and how important it is to date your partner. Dating should not be a chore; it should be a joy and a pleasure. Without adieu, let us present to you the continuation of our dating segment.

Our Crimson Love reports.

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#1 Find the time

Timing and time is extremely important and you should set aside some of it for dates with your lover. We all seem to lack time these days but when it comes to your lovers, be generous with your time. Your dates don't have to be traditional evening outings. You can set aside time during your lunch break to get together. Even if you don't think you have the option of getting together, make sure you prioritize time together. Trust me, it will improve your love life.

#2 Make an effort

When it comes to making dates with your lover, put some thought and effort into it. Don't be afraid to invest the effort and go above and beyond.

For example, instead of going to that neighborhood restaurant you always go to, try a new restaurant. Do your research on what she or he likes and try something new! You will definitely reap the benefits later in bed.

#3 Find new, exciting activities

Hitting up your usual spots can make for a nice relaxed evening but own the fact that you can try something new. Go to a new bar, or do an activity neither of you have done before. Exploring new territory will help keep things fresh between you two.

#4 Have goals

If you have a new goal for every date, you'll be sure to fulfill that goal. Make a goal to learn something new together, or to learn something new about each other. Think of something to achieve together each time. Maybe you could even have a goal of creating something special together (think: art or a house project).

#5 Debrief

You may be wondering why this even made it on the list. After your date, talk about what you liked, didn't like or even ideas for things you want to try in the future. Talk about how things made you feel so you both can get an idea about where you are emotionally in your efforts and relationship. De-briefing can be a great way to continue communication patterns for success. Remember: your biggest sex organ is your brain and communication is a great way to stimulate it!

When dating in a long-term relationship, it can get monotonous and sometimes it's non existent. Don't forget this list when you plan your next date. It's sure to add substance and meaning.

With love from, Get Lusty!

This is a guest post by our very own Crimson Love. Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!

Have story ideas? Get in touch with Crimson Love at amber@getlusty.com. 

5 Dream Places to Have Sex

Everyone fantasizes about sex, but my daydreams usually have a heavy emphasis on the fantasy aspect. Specifically, I love thinking about having sex at locations that aren't normally seen as being sexy. So we decided 5 locations are going to get the lusty twist that their PR team should have given them a long time ago! Bon Voyage! Rachael writes on 5 Dream Places to Have Great Sex!

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1. Grand Canyon

This is my longest running "must have sex at before I die" location and luckily it's probably the easiest to achieve since there isn't a lot of policing of the area going on and it's in the same country as me. I picture us together on a rocky craig that is precariously reaching out into the abyss, the awe inspiring sun rise bathing us in light. I love the feeling of natural history and primitiveness that the Grand Canyon creates in me. If you are at all into out doors sex, than this location comes highly recommended! Let your moans echo through out Grand Canyon...and Earth's history!


2. Chateau Versaille

Have you ever seen the queens room in Versaille? I want to be all over that horribly amazing baroque bed...and floor...and awkward little seats. The queens rooms is just so decadent! How could you not want to have some awesome French Revolution role play? While I know this particular dream has a slim to none chance of ever being achieved, maybe a quickie in the lobby bathroom or on the lawns is possible. I'll be sure to have a full report if I ever get the opportunity to go. Until then we can all just imagine what the queen got up to with her consorts in that room. Let them eat cake, indeed!

3. Boat

Ok, let me elaborate: On the deck of a small boat in the middle of the ocean surrounded by nothing. After my initial unease, I don't really like the idea of open water, I would remember that one time I was thinking about what people in the Navy did all day when out in the middle of the ocean (besides actual Navy things) and came to the conclusion I always do: they have sex. From then on boat sex sounded very appealing! The open ocean seems like it would have a feeling of great solitude that would lead to slow, passionate sex. Or it could just let you be able to cut loose and have crazy boat sex that includes using the life vests in interesting ways, who knows!

4. The Parthenon

Another historical location, what can I say! I have a thing for history...and having sex in it. What better way to honor the virgin goddess Athena than to offer a sacrifice of love and sensuality upon her altar? Ok, so she probably wouldn't think highly of that but come on! Doesn't it sound sexy? I definitely would suggest slipping away on the guided tour to have a tryst in the Parthenon. You can always just blame it on Aphrodite if you get caught.

5. Underwater Hotel

I think theme hotels are hilarious and should lead to hilarious themed sex. Probably the newest addition to my dream locations, the underwater hotel brings out the sexy mermaid in me! I don't think it would be very fruitful to go all the way with this fantasy and put on a fin, but maybe you love the sound of that! I would rather play the "I just got my human legs, can you help me balance kind sir" game for the sake of mobility. If role playing isn't your thing, then having sex surrounded by the beautiful ocean sounds good on its own! This location is also good if you don't mind a scuba diver voyeur or two.

Don't let your fantasies grow old and stale! Let yourself imagine having great sex on the Great Wall of China! In a jeep in the Sahara desert! On the British Prime Minister's desk! The diner down the street! Whatever! Fantasies are great and let you live out great sex scenarios that will probably never happen, but are fun and healthy to imagine anyways. Now go exchange fantasies with your partner and see how close you can get to making them reality!

What's your dream place to have great sex? Let us know in the comments!

Rachael is our own marketing specialist and on special occasions a writer. She spends her time researching and creating art revolving around sci-fi, the internet, and now sex! Rachael lives and works in Chicago with her boyfriend and kawaii pet guinea pig Tony Hawk. Find out more at rachaelmilton.net.

Have any questions? Get in touch via rachael@getlusty.com.

5 Ways to Show Him You Love Him

Giving is the best way to receiving. Sometimes we forget to thank our significant others' and tell them we appreciate them. Want him to love you more? The best way, give a little! Our Lora Swarts reports.

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GetLusty is all about enhancing our relationships. Here are five simple ways to show, rather than tell, your man that you love him.

"I love you" are three little words that your man will never get tired of hearing. But if you really want your guy to feel special then you need to show him. The best way to make a man feel loved is through simple acts of everyday kindness. By giving him these little daily gifts he will not only feel more loved, but your marriage will benefit in return. You will have more trust in your relationship and feel more intimate and connected to one another.

1. Listen to him

Women love to talk. Our men are always there for us when we need to vent about work or gab about the newest pose we conquered in yoga class.

However our men need to get things off their chest too.
"For men, it's emotionally meaningful just to have a conversation," says New York clinical psychologist Alon Gratch, Ph.D., author of If Men Could Talk: Translating the Secret Language of Men.

When your man yearns for your undivided attention, give it to him. Try not to interrupt him and don't multi-task while he is talking to you. Try going for a walk together after dinner. This allows time for you both to get in some exercise and connect emotionally.

2. Give him guy time (or time apart)

Whether he is in a fantasy football team or in a bowling league, we need to give our men their "guy time." Not only will giving him space to pursue his passions show him you love him, but you will get in some personal time for yourself too! Space is healthy, natural and normal.

3. Touch him

It's not always about sex with men. Men want and need to be touched just as much as women do. Give him a hug when he gets home from work, rub his back when you are in bed together or gently kiss his neck. Touch brings us closer together and increases our oxytocin levels which can lower stress!

4. Anticipate his needs

Anticipate his needs before he has to ask you to do something. Pour him a cup of coffee in the morning while he is getting ready for work or better yet make him breakfast! Doing the little things for our guys shows them that we are thinking about them.

"It's about tuning in to his needs, making the discovery of them a priority," says Pat Love, Ed.D., author of The Truth About Love. Of course anticipating his needs applies to the bedroom too. Pursuing him makes him feel manly, attractive and wanted. And when he feels that attractive there's no telling what he will do to you between the sheets!

5. Support him

Whether he wants to lose some weight, look for a new job or start a new hobby, men need our support. Don't criticize him about his decisions. You want him to feel like he can come to you with anything. Supporting him through the good times or bad times brings you two closer together.

When it comes to love both men and women appreciate thoughtful actions. It's nice to know that our partner thinks about us and cares about us. Try and make the effort to show your guy how much you love him because actions really do speak louder than words.

Lora is the GetLusty Editorial Intern and resident health nut. When she is not working, you can find her teaching yoga, spending too much money on soy lattes or hanging out with her wonderful boyfriend in their north side apartment. You can find her on Twitter @honeynutlo or blogging over at her own personal blog. Have any questions? Contact her at Lora@GetLusty.com

Devi Ward on Tantra & Women's Sexual Healing

At GetLusty, we realize we don't talk about tantra much. But that certainly isn't because we don't love tantra. We just need to find people to help us do it better! Devi Ward is the perfect example of why we should all utilize tantric sex and meditation. Especially if you feel you need sexual healing, or you've experienced sexual difficulty, this is for you!

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What we chatted about

• How Devi used tantra for her own sexual healing
• Where is the root of sexual trauma (hint: many sexual trauma's happen everyday, so you've likely had to experience it)
• Real-life ways you can do to jump over the hurdles of your sexual traumas (without drugs)
• Some of the many benefits for trying Tantra
• What you can expect from her upcoming book on self pleasure for ladies
• What success means to Devi (namely, feeling sexual abundance)

About Devi

Devi Ward is an International Authentic Tantra Educator & Sensual Empowerment Coach. Devi has been on a path of Erotic Awakening and Spiritual Embodiment since 1993, studying meditation, holistic healing arts, and alternative forms of erotic expression. Devi has been a Professional Sensual Movement Artist since 1992.

Devi is the Founder of Feminine Emergence and creator of Sacred Erotic Dance™ ; a Movement-Healing modality that uses The 5 Core Pelvic Movements™, Authentic Tantra™ & Sensual Dance, to produce physical, emotional and spiritual healing in our relationship to sexual and sensual self-expression.

Her first book “Shake Your Soul Song! A Woman’s Guide To Self-Empowerment Through The Art of Self-Pleasure” is scheduled for release in October 2012. Follow Devi on Twitter @deviwardtantra and on Facebook.

Q: Am I Too Busy for Sex?

You have sex questions, we have sex answers. Check out this question answered from one of our favorite sex therapists, Moushumi Ghose!

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Question

Dear GetLusty,

My husband is always working. Whenever he comes home to me (I also work but not as many hours), I just want to have a conversation. Well, by the end of the conversation we end up feeling tired and want to go to bed. It seems like he works too much and doesn't have enough time for me. This makes me feel like I don't want to have sex with him. What should I do? I don't think I can keep living this way without going crazy!

Signed,
Frustrated wife

Answer

Dear Frustrated Wife,

I am terribly sorry to hear that your husband's busy schedule has you wanting to go crazy. My first question is have you talked to your husband about it? I understand you two are having a conversation when he gets home from work, but what is the conversation about?

Tell him how you feel

Having a conversation about the fact that you feel neglected would definitely be the first step. The best way to get the point across is by using "I statements," such as "I feel neglected," or "I feel like I need more of a connection in order to be sexual with you." Then give him some suggestions that help build connections even when time is limited.

Here is the thing, the short amount of interaction you have is just not enough to get you in the mood for sex with your husband. Many women, and men too, need to feel safe, need to feel like their partner has their back in the relationship, need to feel connected to their partner first, if they are to feel sexy with them. If you're husband is taking you for granted, not treating you in any special way to let you know how important you are to him then you're not going to want to return the favor. What people often fail to realize that sex is just another form of expressing to someone how close you feel to them, but the closeness often has to come from other sources. And, the magic is that it doesn't need to take a lot of time.

Try sexting, too

Sometimes words can do just the trick, maybe if you were to hear how beautiful you are, or maybe even some more sexy dirty words or phrases could get you in the mood. If you're husband is terribly busy and doesn't come home till late, why not try some sexting?

It takes less than 60 seconds for him to send you a romantic, sexy, or dirty text during the day, and he can send up anywhere from 3-5 dirty texts in a day, and this may put romance back on both of your minds, without making you feel overly neglected. This way both of your minds are already thinking about each other, and the propensity to be aroused in a short time is greater.

Get creative with foreplay

The key is to get creative with foreplay. Before you two leave for work in the morning, try saying something sexy to each other, keep your mind sexy together, even while you are apart. That way when you do come together it feels like no time has passed.

Best,
Moushumi Ghose

This is a guest post from the well acclaimed Moushumi Ghose.

Moushumi Ghose is a Sex Therapist, Educator and Coach, Radio Host, Musician, and Filmmaker. She is licensed by the California Board of Behavioral  Science. She is a member of AASECT (American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists). Mou also has extensive experience working with a variety of populations and diverse lifestyles.

Moushumi recently completed an eBook on, "Marriage, Money and Porn." and writes extensively for numerous other sites ranging from Men's Fitness Magazine to GoodTherapy.org. Find her on Twitter @motor_amour, Facebook and her website LASexTherapist.com.

Don't forget to comment below! Have a question about fantasies or our Shades of Grey content month? Send them over to rachael@getlusty.com and we'll get them answered!

4 Ways to a Sexy (Chicago) Staycation

Labor Day weekend is upon us. If you're not in the middle of visiting relatives or at a BBQ, maybe you should consider a staycation this weekend?

Our Crimson reports.

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It's hard when you and your lover have busy lives. You want to get away on a vacation. There, you'll have alone time and get the chance to get out of the house.

What do you do? Take some time out for a staycation! What's a staycation? A staycation is time to get away, relax, and have fun all while staying in your own city. What does one do on a staycation? How does it work? I'm glad you asked!

Here are some important tips to a successful staycation.

#1 Take time off

In order for this to work you must dedicate the time like you would a regular vacation. Leave the kids with a sitter, turn off your cell phones and ditch your other distracting technology. For emergencies leave your hotel phone number and address with the sitter or a relative.

#2 Make lodging accommodations

Book your lodging. Unless you're going to rough it with camping? In which case, plan out where you'll be camping. Chicago itself has a lot of great hotels and places to stay.

Chicago hotel recommendations:

I would suggest the Hotel Sax because on top of having really beautiful, modern rooms it has Bin 36 (the on site restaurant/tavern), The Crimson Lounge (the sexy,  sensual, red lounge also located on site), and it's right next to the House of Blues!

The Hyatt Regency is also another great choice with fabulous rooms, on site restaurants, bars, and gorgeous romantic city views guaranteed to inspire some frisky business. If you want something that's not in the city but would still accommodate your need for lodging and intimacy try Aura in Midlothian Illinois or Ambiance in Franklin Park. You must have a membership to stay because it's considered an "adult hotel".


#3 Choose a restaurant you haven't been to before

Food! It's fulfilling, and can be extravagant and entertaining. Choose a spot that's new, different or luxurious. You both deserve it.

Chicago restaurant recommendations: 

Chicago has a fantastic culinary scene that is certainly on the rise. Not only are there many places downtown but there are also many cool places in neighboring areas. Sepia is a restaurant with a menu to die for and some sexy ambiance.

Another really great restaurant is Japonais. With it's sexy, eye catching decor and wonderful menu options. The absolute must of my recommendations is Alinea. It has been rated as one of the worlds 50 best restaurants and has a menu that is like magic.

#4 Have fun and sexy activities planned

Night life and activities in general in the city are full of fun, excitement and sensuality if you do it right. Variety is the spice of life. Chicago has it from salsa dancing to, couples massages to, sexy crimson lounges, to burlesque shows. Whatever you like, Chicago has it.

When you are feeling the urge to get away with your lover but can't, plan a sexy staycation in Chicago and enjoy your time together.

This is a guest post by our very own Crimson.

Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!

Have story ideas? Get in touch with Crimson at amber@getlusty.com. 

3 Ways to Lusty, Inconspicuous Public Foreplay

Ever have one of those days where all you want to do is just jump your man/woman but, you have such a busy day together or apart that there will be no time until the evening? Boo.

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Public foreplay is not necessarily about grab-ass in public without getting caught.

It's more than that. It's about silently raising the sexual energy between you and your partner to a level that will have you both clinging to your sanity and begging to skip the rest of the day for an explosive session elsewhere.

Here are 3 easy ways to help you and your partner make some unseen sparks in public for an evening fire.

#1 Suggestive body language

It's all about body language and being suggestive. I am not talking about the fake grade school hard-on in your mouth move. I am talking about nonchalantly caressing your chest, lip biting and licking (don't over do this one) all while staring at him.

Give him that look you give him when you want it and he will know what you're doing. When he asks what you're doing, you can simply say "nothing" or, "you're hot," while batting your eye lashes and feigning innocence. For the significant other, this is for you. I know you have a couple of non-physical moves and looks of your own. Use them! Don't be afraid to get flirty and secretly dirty while raising the stakes.

#2 Closeness

This is for the both of you! Private PDA! Sounds like an oxymoron huh? Well not if done properly. This public, physical foreplay is between you and your man/woman and no one else knows what is going on except for you two.

Say you are walking through the grocery store picking up some things and your lover stops to look at some items.

When they stop, make sure you are behind them to press your body against theirs and place both hands on their hips and get a firm (but not tight) hold or place one hand on the hip and let the other roam covertly while you whisper something naughty and then walk away. This works well especially if your in a bigger city with packed public transportation. Stakes raised!


#3 Sexting


We all know what sexting is and we have all tried it or at least entertained the idea.

Half of public foreplay is mental. Giving the idea and the mental images of what is to come later are not thoughts you can easily shake off. Even if your in the same room together at a gathering or having dinner, shoot a suggestive, dirty little sext message to your lover and the return is sure to be positive!

This is a guest post by our very own Crimson.

Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!

Have story ideas? Get in touch with Crimson at amber@getlusty.com. 

Romantic Friday Date Recommendation: Steak & Sangria

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Need a date idea for this weekend? We do our best in scouring the city to find the most romantic hot spots for you lusty couples. We think we've got a good one!

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GetLusty thinks you should put some summer sensuality into your Friday night at Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar!

Treat you and your special someone to the Summer Lovin' Steak & Sangria Prix Fixe dinner that features a butter lettuce and pear salad, a prime New York Strip Steak seasoned with Sweet and Spicy rub, and a decadent fresh peach cobbler.

All for only $39.95!

Be sure to ask about their sexy hand-crafted South Seas Sangria to complete your meal, or to sip on while you lounge outside on their patio.

Why you want to book a dinner:

• Steak is sultry
• This restaurant is highly rated on Yelp
• The fruit inside the sangria is the best!
• Cosmo or martini with your steak? That'd be scrumptious, too! They can do that!
• Perfectly sweet dessert? Included! 
• Their romantic setting--lights dimmed but not too dark--room lively but not too loud

Reserve your table now: Fleming's Online Reservations.

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